Be Thoughtful
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(*) "Anything which you have but others don't have" - Thank God that other's have it and don't detest and envy the thing and the person who has it. Because if later if you get similar thing, will you still detest it?
(*) "Anything which you have but other's don't have" - Thank God that you have it and pray that other's should also get it. But don't decry those who don't have it. Who knows if its taken away from you in future?
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We shouldn't judge everyone all the time and make firm opinions. It takes us nowhere. Because while we judge others we forget that other's also are judging us and they also have right to do so if we have right to judge others. If at all we need to judge others, don't use different spectacles to judge different people. Before applying the specs for judgment, first clean the dust of prejudice from the glasses.
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By comparing yourself with others you are insulting God's/nature's creativity, its belief in you and your own individuality/uniqueness.
Celebrate and accept the nature's/God's uniqueness in each human being which is endless in numbers and still counting ...!!
Never compare yourself with others.
Never compare between any two persons.
Every individual is unique.
Instead of comparison, take inspiration from others.
Comparison destroys self-confidence.
Inspiration increases self-esteem.
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We meet critics at every stage of our life.
It is said that we should adore our criticizers rather than our admirers. Here some questions arise!
Who has given these so-called-criticizers the right to criticize?
Are they the certified criticizers by God or universe?
Do they follow the same things for which they criticize others for not following?
Will they accept criticism on them from us for the wrong things they are doing?
In most cases answer comes “No”!
And if any of the answer is "No" then the criticizers (critics) and their criticism are of no use.
Why only certain people should criticize?
Who will show these "self-declared critics and reformers" their own fault?
Will they accept criticism on themselves in same way they expect others to accept criticism made by them?
Is the critic himself a perfect person?
No! No one is perfect.
Then there is no point in criticism and slandering.
Most of the time, criticism is born out of jealousy and to emasculate someone’s morale. But constructive criticism is born out of care.
Admiration may be sometimes born out of selfishness. But constructive praise is born out of care and to motivate a person.
So who you want to be?
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Don't try to explain everything to everyone. People will only take from it which is convenient for them. Rest of the things they will deliberately ignore. Then the purpose of explanation gets spoiled. If you explain to such "Ears closed and mouth working" type people, it will be wasted. Instead of believing on what you are saying, they will doubt the truthfulness of what you say. A skeptical person is never satisfied with any length of explanation. He will still doubt in everything. Your explanation to skeptical person is waste of time. Only explain to those who understand you and care for you. But if someone understand and cares for you truly, then anyways there is no need of explanation. They will understand without any explanation.
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Clarity creates creativity. Clarity clears confusion. Clarity conjures contentment.
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A person finds fault with everything of another person whom he doesn't like.
A person likes everything of another person whom he likes.
A negative person finds fault with everything and everyone regardless of whether he likes them or not; and also ignoring his own faults.
A positive person finds good points in everything and everyone regardless of whether he likes them or not; and also improving his own faults.
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God's message for everyone:
If you do your best for you, I will do my best for you,
If you can do something for yourself, I can do something for you,
If you can't do anything for yourself, I can't do anything for you!"
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Negative people don't want solutions.
They want to continue their negativity and want to live with the problems.
If the problem is resolved then they will not have anything to complain about.
Then they will find something new to express their negativity and to complain about. Negative people build wall of problems around them and hence they are never able to see the ample opportunities and the solutions which are lying beyond the wall. Because negative people aren't ready to believe that problems can be resolved.
Positive people will find problems, work on solutions and move ahead in life to solve new problems and to take new challenges.
Because for them problems are nothing but opportunities to grow. They also have wall of problems but when they see towards each brick with positivism, they can see through the wall to spot the solutions and the opportunities.
"Negative persons find problem in every opportunity.
Positive persons will find opportunity in each problem."
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Manhood becomes meaningful only due to existence of womanhood.
And womanhood becomes meaningful only due to existence of manhood.
Both are incomplete and meaningless without each other.
Both are not competitors but are complimentary to each other.
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Negative people don't want solutions.
They want to continue their negativity and want to live with the problems.
If the problem is resolved then they will not have anything to complain about.
Then they will find something new to express their negativity and to complain about. Negative people build wall of problems around them and hence they are never able to see the ample opportunities and the solutions which are lying beyond the wall. Because negative people aren't ready to believe that problems can be resolved.
Positive people will find problems, work on solutions and move ahead in life to solve new problems and to take new challenges.
Because for them problems are nothing but opportunities to grow. They also have wall of problems but when they see towards each brick with positivism, they can see through the wall to spot the solutions and the opportunities.
"Negative persons find problem in every opportunity.
Positive persons will find opportunity in each problem."